Today is my birthday.
I am 45 years old…. let us do some recapitulation:
I think 45 is not too old since I am planning on living 100 years like my grandfather… which means I still have 5 years to go before my mid-life crisis…
I still have the chance to celebrate one day 50 years of marriage (honey if you keep up and stay in shape)
I can still work enough years to get a decent retirement…
45 years in this world… not too bad, with still 50 years to go!
Let’s see what I acheived so far: I made it through 20 years of war, through law school and my jailed clients, through immigration as an “alien”, and now hopefully will come out from Africa without malaria…
I’ve learned few things:
“Nothing last” good things and bad things they both vanish eventually.
“Love keeps you alive” and mostly “keeps people around you alive too…”
“Developing a new skill is the most aphrodisiac activity you can ever have”
“You are what you are, not more, nor less”
“You can never be alone enough… but the worth is feeling alone when you are with somebody else”
“Life is a constant surprising process”
“Don’t try to be a philosopher when you are writing a blog, it bores the reader”
Thank you for reading it anyway…
Now I am going to go and celebrate surviving 45 years and loving it.
Happy birthday, Merella, long life
Thanks Cin
Happy Birthday! I’m planning to live to be old as well, but I am 58, so I am past middle age. I hope we meet one day before we get too old.
so how does it feel to be 58?
I hope to meet you too one day Debra! who knows!
take care!
58 is just fine. I have a wonderful life doing things I couldn’t do when I was younger.
Happy birthday, Mirella! Loved your philosophical post. =) Have a wonderful day, don’t get malaria, and live well beyond 100!
LOL thanks Gwen! I am glad you enjoyed my post
Happy Birthday my friend…hope all is well there.
Things are well… however celebrating my birthday always makes me a little sad…
Happy Birthday Mirella,
You don’t look a day over 25…
God Bless
paul
Thank you you made my day!!!! God bless you too!
Happy birthday, beautiful! You look gorgeous and like you’re fresh out of college! But even better is your youthful outlook and kind and giving nature which even comes across in your writing and how you offer sweet words of advice. I love what you wrote here. I’m sharing this with friends because these life lessons are very sage. Thank you for sharing! xoxo
oH my god Holly this is so sweet! It is the best birthday present! ever! My husband is going to be mad now
Love you girl!
Mirella,
Happy to be following you now and happy belated birthday! Ellen
Ellen thank you!
Did you know that you are the first blogger friend that I meet outside the virtual blogesphere?
It was nice meeting you today and thanks for all the wonderful presentations, I enjoyed them very much:)
Happy Birthday, Mirella. Best wishes for you to live to be 100 years. A fine ambition.
Thanks you for the perfect post. I love it.